Thursday, 21 December 2017

8 Years on and Still Fighting...

8 Years on and Still Fighting...

December 2010 a 15-year-old girl that has been healthy all her life (the worst illness she had ever suffered from all her young life was the flu but even those were not many) came from school and fainted after 6 months of constant A&E (ER) and family doctors visit and thus was admitted to hospital and stayed in the hospital for 5 months plus straight.

During that time she could not walk on her own because she had lost so much weight that she was wearing the trousers of a 6/7-year-old.  She could not leave her bed without support.  She was fragile that a simple poof of air would knock her down.

She was poked and prodded on a daily basis.
She was having a different test every day.
She became the Guinea pig for doctors to figure out what was wrong with her.

She had a family that she was close too but spending such a long time in hospital it became isolation even though her father never left her side not even for a day. the longest he would leave would be maybe 3 hours.

The way she coped with it that time was that she was in denial and thought tomorrow I will get better. Tomorrow came and things were the same or worse at times. But she continued to hope that that tomorrow was going to come someday. Some may call it denial and others may call it hope.

She missed her final year of secondary school. She did not attend any of her classes. She was so weak that she could not attend the hospital school either. The hospital school were concerned about her studies. her family were concerned. She was concerned. but she had no energy to even think straight. Her days were spent sleeping or going down for a test to find out what was wrong with her.

But that did not stop her from attempting to do her GCSE's even though groups of people tried to convince her to not do them. Redo the year they said to her. Focus on your health they said to her. You have not done anything whatsoever for your year 11 they said to her. These groups of people were her family, her teachers, her doctors, her friends, the hospital school staff and at times even herself.

She did all her GCSE's. She would go to her school just for the exam. Then return to her hospital bed and sleep.

Through all the impossibility and the doubt from herself and others, she achieved: 13 GCSE's (1 A*, 4, A's, 6 B's & 2 C's).

Through the process of finding out what was wrong with her. She was tested. She was not believed by doctors. A young girl who is so sick that she cannot keep any food down must be making it all up. She was told she was suffering from anorexia. That came to be a wrong diagnosis. Then she was told she was suffering from bulimia. That came to be a wrong diagnosis. Though through the process she still hoped that tomorrow was going to come and she would be back to normal. Because of this, she was not angry for the misdiagnosis. She understood that this was all part of the process for doctors to rule things out.

But what made her angry was when she was constantly told that its all in her head. That she is making it up. Here you have someone who adores food. Who loves to cook and bake. Who continues to eat even though it makes her sick to prove to you that it's not her head. But she was still grateful she had access to one of the best health services in the world.

During this time she was kept alive with tubes.

The first attempts were tubes down her nose to her digestive system to feed her. This did not last long. In fact, as soon it was put in within minutes it came out because she couldn't keep anything down. Many, many attempts were made with these tubes to the point where in a day where attempts were made to put tubes down her nose 4 or 5 times a day.

Then came the tubes in her tummy. Now, these were many too that were surgically place. These were ones that would be used long term. But her body could not handle the feeds.

In the desperate attempts to make sure she did not lose any more weight, she had tubes that went into the artery of the heart that would feed her IV nutrition that would avoid her digestive system.

After months of doctors scratching their heads and trying experimental treatments and diagnosis, she was finally visited by a specialist who specified a specific scan that will diagnose her. And that scan did diagnose her.

When she was diagnosed she continued to stay in the hospital to come up with a strategy to give her a good quality of life. Her diagnoses let her know that her life was not going to be the same. After gaining her weight and energy she was trained up on how to take her medications and feed and thus was left with tubes in her tummy that would feed her daily. This meant she was going to be stuck to a pump all day long to give her nutrition and in return, it will keep her alive.

Thus the young girl still hoped that tomorrow would come. and to this day tomorrow has still not come.

She went on to do her A-Levels which included months and months of hospital admissions.

Every time she had been admitted to the hospital the visits have never been less than a month.

Again with missing half a year of her first years of A-levels and then also missing half of the year of her Second A-levels she still managed to get into university.

Yet still hoping that tomorrow would come and she would be back to normal. She would not need to rely on tubes to survive. She learnt her paths in life was never meant to be easy. Through university, she continued to be hospitalised. She continued to live on tubes and still does.

Her health made her take a gap year which was to be her final year. She was devastated. All her friends graduated while her health became worse. Her body rejected the tubes in her tummy. She was hospitalised for 5 months. She developed sepsis. She faced death on multiple occasions. This was the worst she had ever been.

And thus she was permanently put on Total Parental Nutrition through a Hickman Line that is situated in her Jugular Vein. This would feed her nutrition that was made specifically to her blood on a daily basis bypassing her whole digestive system and was to become her new way of life. She was told though it is more dangerous than the previous tube it is our only option to keep you nourished and hydrated.

This was to be a new way of life that required different training and more vigilance because the simple infection can lead to sepsis which can lead to coma in worst cases. Though she did not complain because for her it meant she was spending less time connected to a pump. She could move around without carrying a pump with her everywhere. She could do it overnight. She forgot about everything about the tube as she was ecstatic that she had a little more freedom of not being connected to pump by a tube 24/7.

She returned to University to finish off her final year where all her classmates had graduated. She was alone and did not know anyone apart from her tutors. Remembering she had faced death on multiple occasions that year she was determined to get more involved within her university. Her determination paid off. She joined Societies. She ran societies. She ran events. She ran campaigns. She found a new family that she enjoyed doing all this with. they all had the same vision to make students life better.

Her new friends had no clue what she was going through because she was still hoping that tomorrow would come and she would be back to normal. Slowly she built trust with her new friends and started telling them small things about her health but always played it down because she wanted to be normal. She did not want to be pitied.

She defied the odds, battled with her health and continues to do so more than she done so before. She met individuals from across the country who have inspired her and with whom she's made friends with. Friends that she cherishes deeply for teaching her so much! Friends that have supported her in a way she had never imagined was possible. Friends that have developed her and friends that made her realise my potential. Most importantly, friends that have strengthened her faith when it was low.

She persevered with literal blood, sweat, and tears and Graduated from university and has now started her Masters at a Russell group university.

She learnt that sometimes life does not always turn out the way we plan it, and that's because what we planned wasn't supposed to be our life.

Though as she goes into 2018 she still hopes that the tomorrow she has been hoping for the last 8 years will still come someday and that she is going to be back to normal - she is okay.

Nothing in life is easy. Everyone is tested in different ways.

"And it may be that you dislike a thing which is good for you and that you like a thing which is bad for you. God knows but you do not know.”

She has seen more blessings in the last 8 years than she had before though she continues to battle every day. She continues to put the smile on her face that everything is okay when it isn't.  Yes, its sucks! But she tries not be shackled by thoughts of why me? Rather she is trying to embrace it.

8 Years on it has not become easy but "that's the things about pain, it demands to be felt."



Saturday, 19 November 2016

Chronically Invisible: Dear Society!

Dear Chronically Invisible Patients,

"You are all Superheroes fighting big battles! 
With courage beyond your years! 
And show others the meaning of unconditional love! 
Your stories teach others to endure, to face challenges, to love selflessly 
and find the strength we all have within. 
Your love extends sunshine warming all those around you!" 

Dear Society,

Shockingly, about 15 million people in England have a long-term condition (Department Of Health (2012). Long-term conditions or chronic diseases are conditions for which there is currently no cure, and which are managed with drugs and other treatments. Sadly, according to WHO Chronic diseases are the major causes of death and disability worldwide.

"How are you?"

"I'm okay, thanks." This reply is so much easier to say than to explain why we are not okay. Which is everyday.  We have trained our tongue so well that without even thinking, the words automatically come out before we even have processed what they have asked us. A reason for this being is that many times when we have told people how we actually feel they pity you for the rest of your life. You become the illness. Not a person.  Some people regret even asking you in the first place. So to keep everyone happy the automatic response seems reasonable.

"But you don't look sick!"

A remark thousands of people with invisible illnesses are subject to.  Most of us in this community are too nice, we just smile and nod, some may even say its just comes automatically to us or that we have heard it a million times.  Perhaps a response that is in some of our heads that would make people think would be: " Please do tell me, what does sick look like?" "I will make sure to satisfy you and try to get it right next time!"

This remark doesn't just come from our family, friends, and strangers but also our trusted doctors. A simple reply of theirs would be "It's all in your head!" and send you away home without a second look. I ran a Facebook page and Facebook groups, which has hundreds of members most of whom have been told this by professionals. This leaves us in more distress and some even start to believe that it may be in their heads after all. Many of us continue this fight even after we have been diagnosed with a chronic illness especially in A&E/ ER when all you're information should be on the system but they still doubt you.  That is one of the hardest parts of being chronically ill.

The worst thing you can do to someone with an invisible illness is to make him or her feel like they need to prove how sick they are. 

"My cousin's friend's, sister's uncle's, wife use to have that. She did this and that and that and now she is perfectly fine. You should ask your doctor that too." The number of times we hear this is unfathomable. Yes, we know you mean good but please stop comparing us to others. For most of us, it is a life long illness that does not have a magic cure. Yes, it is great to stay hopeful and faithful for future advancements in medicine but it is kind of hard when you are told there is no cure.

Have we come to a point to where we need to put a label on our foreheads to say we are unwell? A
common everyday problem is parking in the disabled bay. We may not have wheelchairs but does that make us less disabled? The cynical looks you get. The whispers you get. The disgusted looks you get. All this really makes you wish you had a label permanently marked on your forehead. I know people in our community who suffer from falls just by standing up. As they stand up their blood pressure drops and their heart rate increases, so the body's response is to fall flat so it can accumulate for this. Others suffer from dislocations and subluxations by simple movements. Some may even have a small bag with them (you may think what does a small bag have to do with being disabled?) don't be too quick to judge! That small bag they have with them is their lifeline! It can be either a machine to feed them through a feeding tube or an oxygen machine to help them breathe. So do we really have a right to say to tell someone that they are not ill? This is in no way to say that those in wheelchairs are less important but only that we should not judge a book by its cover.

Funnily a friend of mine had a deliveryman deliver her TPN (Total Parenteral Nutrition) and his first words were:
"Is this for you?"
She replied "yes." You can guess what he said afterwards...
"You don't look like a person who will need this." Now, we don't blame him for saying that, but it does get tiring constantly being told this. There is a lack of education about chronically invisible illnesses and lack of awareness of it. You can now see why they are called invisible illnesses.

We are not being rude or shady, we are just so awesome that even our own immune system can't get enough of us. It simply does not want us to be shared with others. It just wants us for its self.  Who doesn't want to go out with their friends and have fun? It is human nature to be around those you love and wanting to spend time with them. But being chronically ill these little joys in life are not so easy. I may be okay now when I have told you I can meet you but 2 minutes later things are not so certain. I guess what I'm trying to say is that we can't make plans not because we don't want to but because it is out of our hands. So please be patient with us. The worst feeling is not being able to keep a promise to your friends and backing out in the last minute or not even being able to plan in the first place. This sort of guilt eats us away.

Just because you can't see the symptoms doesn't mean they are not there. Most of us want to be constructive members of society but society seems to be irritated with us because we look 'normal'. But we ask you this: what is normal? I will leave you with this message. Illness knows no limits. It does not respect one's age or attitude. It simply says I will change your life but no one will ever know.  We may not look sick, but turn our bodies inside out and they would tell a different story.

Don't Judge. Be Kind. Be Thankful.


Friday, 12 February 2016

New Way Of Living... (TPN)

The Beautiful City Of London Was my Company! 

I hope everyone is doing as well as they can! xxx

You might be wondering why I have named the title of this entry as New Way of Living? Well over the past couple of months I have had many challenges. 

As many of you know I am completely dependant on a Feeding Tube, well what happens when that Feeding Tube decided to beak in half and fall out in the middle of the night? 

I woke up in the middle of the night drenched in my feed. I was so worried that I thought I had wet myself (which has never happened) but there was a much bigger problem waiting for me. I lifted my night shirt up and quickly realised that the jejunostomy had broken in half. Half of it was inside me the other half fallen out. So my initial response was to keep the stoma site open at any cost. I tried to push the tube back in to the stoma site but boy was it painful! It would not go in, the stoma had closed. 

So I emailed my Consultant (who is the most Amazing consultant there is!) and he emailed me back first thing in the morning instructing me on what to do and would be expecting me in A&E. I am so thankful for the NHS and the wonderful team of Doctors, Nurses, Porters, Cleaners... for their hard work and dedication! I went in early in the morning and was admitted in at midnight. They couldn't do much except to keep me comfortable and hydrated.

Fast forward my PEG had too become infected badly. I was taken down to surgery to get it removed and to place another jejunostomy. All is not very difficult as I have had done it many times before. 

But boy was I wrong! 

As soon as I come out of theatre I was in so much unusual pain (not the normal pain that I usually have with this surgery) by the evening I was spiking temperature of 40°C and sometime above. And then there was a lot of blood pouring out of the tube, I started to get worried, the nurses got worried too. I was given medication to lower the temperature but it did not help. It was one hell of a night and little did I know that many more were to follow. In the morning we removed the dressing and it was horrendous! the insertion made, the new and old tube site were full of puss and obviously I had caught an infection. I had excruciating pain in my lower tummy too. I could not move. I could not breath with out it being painful. I had never experienced such pain. 

The Insertions stitches had started to open and as everyday went by it would open even more!  By the third day it was an open gaping mouth full of puss. The new jejunostomy was taken out immediately. I started getting treated for the infection with 4 different types f antibiotics. the infection had travelled deep into my body. The temperatures never came down. I was feeling very weak. I had thought that I knew pain. but  I was wrong.  I had lost a lot of weight. They were not going to do any surgery on my tummy so I had a PICC Line Inserted in the hope that when the infection clears I will be put back on the Jejunosotmy. I had puss collections all over inside my tummy. 

Then after a few days the pain went away so they stopped the antibiotics. what a terrible decisions they had made, because a day later the horrendous pain shot back in. Worse than before. As soon as my temperatures came back down I was taken own to get a Hickman line inserted to my heart. This was to be a new chapter in my life. 

I was told that the infection is ferocious and that  I would have to go home with a Hickman Line and having regular antibiotics. I started to get trained on how to use a Hickman. Let me tell you something being told that this you're last option at keeping you alive is a scary thing. Especially when this come with much greater risk as it sits in my heart. I though I had changed my life style already for the jejunostomy and PEG but little did I know that I had to change it even more for this little lad. 

I have had to differ my last year of University due to this and that was the hardest decision I had made! Anyone who knows me knows how much I love education. I thought this illness had already taken a lot from me but hey it wanted to take this away from me too.But I am more than determined to finish it! evermore so! 

Fast forward... I am now fully trained on how to use and have gained my weight back and am having a much better quality of life with this tube because I haven't experienced pains such as my old tube ones from this tube. My Consultant was very proud of me for sticking to and trying over and over again with the other tubes. He had said we should have given it to you earlier but hey at least I tried my best. Knowing this is my last option staying alive haunts me everyday. However, we cannot allow it to stop us from living our lives to the fullest. 

Living with illnesses like this everyday I am reminded that life is very short. Something so small can kill me. 

Here is to Brighter Days! 
Only recently, I was about to get ready to start my TPN feed and something in my mind told me to check my phone. And I did. I had one missed call and one voicemail. I checked. They had said that my TPN bags were contaminated and that if I had taken any I had to go to hospital and tell them how much I had taken. In that mili of a second I was saved from unforeseen disaster. All I have to say is just be thankful for what you have. Be grateful for life. 

I will be writing an article for the Huffington Post and you can decide what it should be about! Just leave a comment to be a part of raising awareness. 

Sending my Love to all of you! 

"A Smile Cures Anything!" "Making the Invisible Visible!" 

Go and hit Like on the Smiling With Gastroparesis page!

Wednesday, 25 February 2015


Hello Dear Readers!

I'm so sorry I haven't been on the blog! I have had many challenges on my path way. I hope everyone is doing as well as they can!

The end of last year and the start of this year have not been great! I have had many infections that I have lost count off causing me extremely bad pains. Both of my tube sites are still infected and am still taking antibiotics for it but so far have not helped! And I don't even remember how many time I have taken antibiotics either! If this course doesn't help then it looks like going to Hospital and being admitted for IV antibiotics!

But hey what's life without challenges?!!!

I'm proud to announce I have passed my Driving test and I am an owner of a shiny pink new card in my wallet! (driving licence).  I didn't think I could do it because of the above reasons always sick but I pushed on to every lesson and on the test day I was awful running a temperature! But I did it!

I'm also proud to announce that I have become a student ambassador for my university! which is exciting! I had my first interview ever for this post, It was nerve racking but fun at the same time. I met wonderful people that is a pleasure to work with. People that know me know that I'm very easily approachable with big smile on my face and always on the ready to make new friends!

Furthermore, I have become an assistant at a school teaching Psychology, Sociology and Humanities subjects on the day I don't have uni. The teachers I'm working with are amazing and have accepted me with two crutches that carry with me all the time! And I'm grateful that I wasn't discriminated against because of my illness. This is an amazing opportunity as I would like to be a teacher one day... who knows maybe even a head teacher...

One thing I would like to apologise for is that I have not been in contact with many of my friends you all know why! Thank you all for your support, kind words of encouragement and friendship!

Hafsa xxx

'A Smile Cures Anything'
'Making the Invisible Visible!'

Saturday, 20 December 2014

Gastro What? Gastroparesis

Great News!

In a bid to raise awareness I decided to write an article about gastroparesis for Huffington Post and it had a massive response being liked 1.3K only on Facebook!
Click on the link to view it -->

All my Love!
Thanks for the ongoing support!!!!

Saturday, 13 September 2014

Article in Huffington Post

My Article that I wrote (Acceptance of Chronic illness) has been published in Huffington Post!

This is exciting news as this platform gives an opportunity to spread awareness for Gastroparesis, EDS and POTS as well as chronic illness in general.

More exciting things coming soon!!!


Saturday, 6 September 2014

Acceptance in Chronic Illness

Acceptance in Chronic Illness

It is known that acceptance of long-term chronic illness is seen as a substantial problem in patients with chronic illnesses. Absence of acceptance can lead to clinical improvements being delayed considerably. It can also lead to poorer adherence to the current and ongoing medical treatment. They may be branded and judged by others as being in denial.

The term acceptance in human psychology means an individual’s agreement to the realism of a situation (a chronic illness) by identifying a procedure or condition without trying to change it or protesting against something that can not be changed. The term of acceptance is familiar to 'acquiescence', which comes from the Latin word of 'acquiēscere' (to find rest in).

There are different types of acceptance but the one we are going to look at is Self-acceptance this is a person’s contentment, loving and fulfillment with themselves with who they are now. This is known to be extremely essential for good mental health. Self-acceptance is an agreement with an individual’s self of self-understanding to appreciate, authenticate, acknowledge your strengths and weaknesses and support who you are at this moment in time.

In the 19 years of my life I have been through a lot of challenges, specifically in the past 4 years. I’m extremely lucky to have had almost a normal life s some people are not that lucky. My whole world fell apart when I woke up one day and started vomiting uncontrollably; at the time I did not take it seriously neither did my Doctor. We all thought it was just a nasty bug that was going around.  Little did I know that I was in for a shock! As time passed I started to get worse. Fast-forward 6 months I came from school and fainted I was then taken to hospital and this became my second home.

I always kept a positive attitude and thought that this too shall pass; that this was just another everyday thing. As days passed in the back of my mind suppressed that this thing that my body had was far bigger than I thought. Yet I kept that though suppressed and denied it everyday of the 5 months I pent in hospital. Here I was a girl who went to school just like any other teenager, played all sorts of sports, helped my mum in anything possible to being bed ridden, never did I think I would need help in going to toilet but I did everything was done in my bed. While my peers, carried on their normal life. I too was once part of that. It is a human thing that we never think of what we have until we loose it. I lost my mobility, my ability to eat, to dress myself even the littlest things such as brushing my hair and teeth.

I was very angry with myself first at taking simple things for granted. I was angry at why I was lying in the same place in pain, agony, covered in tubes one down my nose to my Jej, that I constantly vomited; another from my arm to my heart giving me artificial nutrients keeping me alive yet that could have been the very thing that could have killed me it caused havoc in my body but I needed the nutrients as my weight was dangerously low. I was angry at being poked with needles multiple times through out the day not because it was painful but every needle reminded me of what I had lost.
Days passed theses things continued but I always smiled through it not because I wasn’t angry but because I denied everything that was going on. Doctors and nurses believed I was not in pain because of the fake smiles the laughter’s with my Dad that I put on a show for my dad because he slept in an armchair for 5 months continuously not leaving my side. I had to stay strong for him but inside when he would be asleep I would cry dry tears for the life I had lost. For the life I had now. And the life I could have had or never will have.  Somewhere deep inside I knew I had to come to terms with the fact that my life had gone from being independent to being completely dependent on my parents for everything.

At 15 I had to fight my way to make them believe that all this was not in my head. Who would believe a 15 year old? Especially how the media portrays young women. My Father. But I was never into those things I didn’t read magazines or watched much of TV and I was always trying to be unique and find my own path rather than follow others. Both my father and I fought hard to make them believe that this was not in my head. This was a dark time for us all. My dad had lost his job because he was with me; you can only take a certain time of work before they show you the door. My little brother who was very close with me had problems sleeping at night because I was not home. He would spend the day crying. My mother was pregnant so hospital was not good place for her. All this was a huge emotional roller coaster for us all! I was grieving and denying in secret having bottled up all my feelings after trying the nasal tube for the 10th time that day after constantly vomiting it out that bursted into tears that were rolling down my cheeks uncontrollably; they tasted salty. This was the only thing that I had tasted in a long time. All the emotions I had hidden and bottled up behind a smile exploded. I was grieving. 

We all go through grieve during sometime of our lives. Weather it is loosing a close family member, a pet or in my case my health, a diagnosis of terminal illness or a long-term chronic illness. Above I have mentioned some of the stages of grieve they include denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance, abbreviated DABDA. This also known as the Kübler-Ross model. To find out more click here.  Every individual is different and will go through theses stages differently for short or long terms, as there is no wrong or right time limit. The idea was established for bereavement and terminal illnesses; it can also be applied to chronic illnesses.


The first stage, a reaction that follows after loss is denial; when the reality is hard to face we deny everything. In my case I always hid my loss behind a smile and denied that this chronic illness will be long-term and that It will not get better. I though that in the coming days it will get better and kept giving myself false hope. What this meant was that I was in such a shock that I tried to shut everything and everyone out of the reality I thought that if I kept smiling everything would be normal. I pretended that that it wasn’t real and tried to protect myself from the truth. However we cannot always stay in this stage at some point we start to question about our feelings and the situation.


The good old “why me? It’s not fair!” stage believe me when I say this I still go through this most of the time anger surges through my veins and when I’m in this stage I tend to lash out my anger at my family members. Though they understand why, this shows that denial cannot continue anymore. During this time I feel guilt at the same time for lashing out but we all go through this at sometime of our lives. Anger can mark itself in distinctive ways. People can be angry with themselves, or with others, or at a higher power, and especially those who are close to them. To those who are dealing with individuals like this should remember to remain detached and nonjudgmental.


This stage compromise of hope that the person somehow feels that they can reverse or undo what has happened to them somehow just to avoid a cause of grief. In this stage those with grief may say things such as “I'll do anything for a few more years."; "I will give my life savings if…"
. This is often negotiated with higher power. This is a normal reaction to feeling powerless and vulnerable. I have thought things such as “IF only we had reciveved medical attention sooner…” or  “If only my Doctor believed me…” or sometimes my father would say “If only we got a second opinion from another doctor…” This sort of a of weak wall of defense we put up in front of us to protect us from the painful reality.

The fourth stage is one of the appropriate responses to grieve and loss it is natural to feel sadness, fear, regret and uncertainty; this indicated that the person has began to accept his or her situation and paves the way to acceptance.  We all go through this stage where we feel as though “What’s the point… I’m going to die soon…” or “this will not get better why bother with anything…” individuals feel a void in them. When I’m in this stage I tend to block everyone out. I don’t pick up phone calls from friends and family and refuse visitors or going anywhere. Sometimes it gets so worse that I refuse to take my medication. Depression could be referred to as the dress rehearsal for the 'aftermath'. It is in a way acceptance with emotional attachment.
In this stage a person begins to come to terms with their chronic illness, terminal illness or a death of a loved one and of that of unavoidable future.  "It's going to be okay."; "I can't fight it, I may as well prepare for it." This stage is different to each individual. This does not mean I’m okay but only that I accept my mortality. I still go through anger, denial, depression and barging- I’m only human.  I have good days and bad days. On the good days I tend to enjoy myself by doing my favorite hobbies such as reading, photography or going out for a walk. However on the bad days I don’t want to get out of bed, I cry myself to sleep and questions such as “why me?” arises in my head. I lash out at family members or confine myself to my room. Accepting is just like acknowledging a new norm. your norm was different before you fell ill to what it is now.
Acceptance has come to the point form me is that I want to help others in my situation and that’s why I tend to blog about it so that others will find that they are not alone.
Please share and leave a comment so that others can benefit from it too.

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Hafsa :) xxx